A NEW YEAR! AND MORE!

HELLO~!!!!
a New Year, New President, New Goals, New Clothes! HAHA
DAMM WELL ITS BEEN.....A WHILE EH?
just haven felt like going online on the computer since i can just go straight to facebook from my phone nowadays! So sorry
But...........Anyway....my aunt got me a 50 dollar gift card to Macy's, so i thought id use my money wisely (AS IF!) JUICY COUTURE~VIVA LA JUICY!





Its really a light scent...not really me though..i LOVE the smell, but i prefer it to be a little stronger...=( can hardly tell its on you once you put it on....but hey, the bottle is prettful!



WELL, ohio was...OK
more like a ChiLLaXati0N mode when i was there
but.......travel time in 09....ima be all over thee place...wHooPwHoop! the BIG 21!
r3uNiTed wiTh th3e VA HOMIES! NEW PEIRCING.................

(DONE!), NEw WARDROBE (DONE...SIKE! can never stop Shopping!) Bond wiTh n3W BeStESt! ReuNite wiTh MAIN bestest ! GRADUATION FROM NHI! HOPEFULLY TRANSFER TO A 4 YEAR BY THIS TIME NEXT YEAR! ....annnnnnnNd VEGAS wiTh BRANDY!!! s0....09 shOuLd b3 interesting ...=p



WHAT ARE YOUR ASPIRATIONS FOR 09????

OBAMA & BIDDEN 08!

yes he is up 11 points, but dont depend on just staatistics...do your part in insuring we elect the Right one!


HOPE YOU GUYS ARE KEEPING UP WITH YOUR PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION......LOL




NO SERIOUSLY..ITS JUST CRAZY HOW I FIND MY OWN GENERATION CHOSES A CANDIDATE AND DOESN'T EVEN DO THEIR RESEARCH ON WHAT THAT PERSON STANDS FOR

I MEAN, I BELIEVE YOU SHOULD GET THE CORRECT FACTS ON BOTH THE PERSON YOU LIKE AND THE PERSON YOU DONT LIKE..COMPARE NOTES, COMMUNICATE WITH OTHERS AND ITS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE! I MEAN IF THEY ARE FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN FOR YOURSELF, YOUR FAMILY AND COUNTRY THEN THATS YOUR CHOICE





OMG I LOVE MICHELLE OBAMA!!! LOL this is kinda old but if you missed it heres the link...and the end is soooo cute!








SO MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE!!!!

SIMS 3 2009! and OAKLAND SLAM! & aFter paRty hIT!

aiTe yaL w3 aT iT aGaIN the National RE!N , iTs aBout t0 go d0Wn aGaIN @ Harbin Hot Springs in Middletown, Ca hiT uP the Facebook group to RSVP and bring the swim gear!

buT OCTOBER 30th geT reAdy aS Berkeley and Oak-town Battle it off in the fiNaL roUNd oF th3 #1 poetry slam group around! ALL Ages, $10, buT the kiddies gotta GO once th eAfter Party hiT! Be Ready and RSVP!







aNd aNy1 iN neEd oF carpoolin hiT m3 n nIsHa!

OMG I THOUGHT I WAS DONE FOR THE DAY BUT GILDA!!!!!!! I LOOKED UP THE SIMS 3 YOU TOLD ME ARLLANS FRIEND CHECKED OUT AT THE PREMIERE! SO FELLOW SIMS LOVERS CHECK IT OUT !

ISAIAH 54:17 NO WEAPON SHALL PROSPER , QUEEN BEES, aNd sCripTure foR thE daY

And one scripture that is very popular, at least from Beautiful Redeemer Ministrees aka my uncles church (*WHOOPWHOOP!*) is a song that is Very inspirational and of course true...but heres a part.
God Will Do What He Said He Would Do
HE Will Stand By His Word....
HE Will Come Through
No Weapon.....
Formed Against Me....
Shall Prosper.....
It Wont Work.....



"No weapon that is formed against you will prosper; And every tongue that accuses you in judgment you will condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, And their vindication is from Me," declares the LORD. ISAIAH 57:17

this is not necessarily talking about a PHYSICAL weapon, liek a knife, a blade, but anything, ANYONE cannot break your spirit if you allow God to live in your heart and speak to you, THROUGH YOU, ALways......

God is the creater therefore the understander of ALL things....he loves his children yet he despises disrespect toward you, but also the bitterness you allow Through you....and unless you turn to him and leave it in his hands because HE IS BEAUTIFUL FOR ALL SITUATIONS, if you have to cry, cry but lean on him and speak to him aned have FAITH if you dont know what to ask for or if you are int he right path, Pray that you WILL understand and pray that HE will direct you into the right direction. Once he does you will know what to do from there because he NEVER puts you in a situation you cant handle. NO ONE. If you use something positive and turn it to negative or negative turn into positive that is Your choice because once he leads you in the right direction it is up to you to FOLLOW.

*****A parent leads and loves his child and teaches them the best they can to lead them to the right path of life but they Have to sit back andwatch and have faith they have done what they could that You know better and Right from Wrong...but it is up to you to Take that path, you hear me?

OMG I love that show Queen Bee's ..on MTV...
On the show this one gurl (forgot her name but the one in the middle at the Top row) has no problem telling people whats wrong with them, but when the tables are turned shes upset

********EXAMPLE she wrote a list for all the girls in the house to follow to "get along", but c'mon you cant set rules for the WHOLE house to go by unless the Whole house helped you create them...instad it seems like you are Telling them how to act LOL so tho she had great ideas and she only trying to help everyone get along, she came off as an a-hole...

Unfortunately it happens... when someone, especailly a large panel of people confront us we jump before trying to realize that maybe you did do something wrong or Seemed so. But if you didnt mean to then dont make yourself look like a bigger brat, just say so..! but dont be an a$$ about it...and if you come across like that im Sure they will tell you. its like we tend to do things we dont mean to sound like, do or say when we're upset or frustrated which is why in that moment u should just chill, and write out what you wanna say...read it over if you can ...if its physical contact with someone....just keep your composure...if its your friends, understand they arent telling you to knock you down, they just want to let you know how they feel and understand and fix things, but if you cant take the time out to try then makes them not wanna come to you and be honest with you no just about hwo they feel about other peoplebut about you as well, making you seem like you put what first.....

EGO is what i think it is...lolz
but its understandable...it can be overwhelming just dont let it take over! LOLZ!

Mary Monroe, MAC, & Ed Hardy Snowbuster Winter BOOTS!!! OMFG!

So This is my official years resolution before the year is up which im sure i will be able to accomplish with some bribbing and begging ! LOL! There's actually one other design (an those of you who prefer lowtop boots, they have those too! same design and a few dollars cheaper!) You can find these at Stations (online), Aldo (serremonte shopping center and a few other locations...but not downtown SF, I checked) Show Mania, and a few others.



WOOOOO!



This woman is Such a great talent...I Love her books....its like they could be a billion pages long and ill finish them before the week is up! yea...they're that good....just a little dedication to her as well as a preview of some of her work you may have heard of or wanna check out...i Highly recommend and assure you...you will Not be disappointed! =)




Nothin big...except im Hella mad Barbie got her own MAC tag now....but hey, Everyone loves MAC ! LOL!

HALLOWEEN TREATS!

sorry Gilda i like skankish wear haha! not too skanky though....but here are a few ideas for halloween costumes..the best one isnt up cause its MINE lol and dont wantg people to see it yet...but this year's costumes arent really that good though unfortunately..i checked hot topic online and at the mall..and their stuff is OK..nothing to write hoem about though....i did find some that are kinda cute or sumwut classy/sexy all at once...so heres a few ideas....anything else i find in the long run ill post up later.....

actually.........ive found a site that has a bit of both you all might luv...and since i dont wanna post up Every Single outfit..ill post a few with the websites below. And if you are just looking for lingerie (Ladies ! =p ) these might be some great picks!
But like Tanisha says...a home made outfit can definately be more fitting..and less expensive!

Classy t0 Trashy to Skanktified! LOL! hey...only one night to act a fool !

http://www.3wishes.com/
http://www.flirtcatalog.com/
http://community.hottopic.com/halloween/default.asp

REPLY:

well, got my first comment of the day...or night...lolz omg and i am so tired...im never up this late unless im out...but anyway thanks to the person who commented but heres my reply...i dont know if that person Assumed it was about just them or them at all....but heres my response below...and sorry its so long...yal know i just write like this...maybe thats why theres confusion LOLZ! OH! and its ok Mel, the comments act up sometimes...i know u love me! lolz and you're welcome =)

AND I ♥ ♥ ♥ You SaSHi!!! haha iono if your opinion matters cause we are so much alike...but then again you observed all my good and bad times from the outside in just liek anyone else and have always been so awesome with the advice, or just being there period so thanks hun! And thanks for the comment...i actually was gonna post it cause it was exactly what i was trying to point out in my response and so short and simple, but since you told me not to change anything i wrote below, i wont...=)

OK....heres my response to the first comment i recieved last night:



ok, let me just make this clear, not to knock you from your opinion but i saw judgement int hat response...and you may not have meant it that way just liek i didnt mean to sound like the "world revolves" around me or im blaming otherrs... i never saied it was a specific persons FAULT. People fall apart or away from eachother for different reaosns whether they make sense or not...and it may not even be a logical reason, it can be total misunderstanding/miscommunication....so i am NOT blaming anyone necessarily...i actually blame myself as well as the individuals involved. if i have an issue i approach it head on. But what i will Not tolerate is someone automatically using smart remarks quoting me and being defensive the entire time....if you feel i am wrong or right, either way use Construcive Criticism...my grandfather taught me sometimes you gotta Agree to Disagree...and im all for it...you are not always going to see eye to eye..but if you end it with a negative tone..then it makes matters worse and pointless of even bringing it up n the first place....

and also.......both were confronted. All i expected in return is yEs....their opinion...and if they did what they did intentionally or not then let me know, but dont be a smarta$$...if someone accuses me or tell me flat out i offended them or upset them or worried them in any kind of way especially a good friend im not gonna be like OH THAS BULLSHIT or YOU ARE SO SELFISH ima be like...why did you feel that way or if i felt it was a misunderstanding yes i say so...but im not gonna be a smata$$ with my response....if i feel i didnt do anything wrong i tell em but alot apologize on the fact that id dint Mean for them to feel that way or Mean to make it seem like this or that or whatever...its not necessarily apologizing for your actions but how you may have come across to the other person feel me? but hey if you rather keep your ego first then thats you...but this is me...

and what i also was talking about was its funny in some circumstances how 2 people BOTH AGREE to something yet...you see the other person not doing their part...Thats what hurts because even after you supposedly laid all the cards on the table and talked...somewhere along the line...nothing is changing...and you're right it may not be that one persons fault..it may not be anyones..or...it could be both....but you wont know unless you figure it out together...if your friendship is worth that much...you would make the effort to get to the bottom line and understand one another without judging or criticizing because you feel you are being attacked when you are merely being confronted so that you guys can Fix it ... i dont bring things up if i dont want to fix them and understand them , my own faults as well...


*FYI i never said there was anything wrong with being friends with other friends...but...when you see your own relationship drop ("at a rapid speed") for no reason at all...after years of intrusting that person, leaning on that person, bonding, or whatever it is you have done with that friend...whatever strong bond you had before ..all of a sudden you are left on a limb by yourself...thats not right....it has nothing to do with meeting new people...it has to do with ..do you treat your old friends the same as they were yesturday or do you put more time and effort to make the new relationship work you , without thinking, push the other aside.

and there is actually alot more to the one Story i believe You might be referring to......the friendship failed not just because of one incident...theres actually alot more to the story I found out from other people...n im not the one to depend on others word...but...if its alot you found out being spread to people you hardly talk to, let alone things only me and That other person knew about...and for it to be spread around it Had to come from me or them....then.....theres no question about Who said What...but the question is...Why? Why would you spread My personal buisness...My secrets ive intrusted Only YOu...on top of that ...Why would you go tell someone you Supposedly werent good friends with anymore, that you nagged about all the time...yet...They know the judgements, the issues you had with me and the personal things i intusted only YOU with...???????? if you had a problem then tell me. Ive asked you more than once because ive had to hear from family..FAMILY! and friends that u spoke up to them but not me???? and if you have a problem with how i live my life thats you my dear...i dont judge you or anyone...and you have NO RIGHT to do such a thing. it makes no sense...i never did anything to hurt that person..i was always there...put my a$$ on the line in front of my family numerous times to help you..., and i believed you did the same for me in different ways...until alllllllllll these things come out in the open all at once.....**********now...anyone who is not me or that person have no right to comment because only that person knows why they did what they did...i dont even know...it wasnt even expected....it blew me away.....but i couldnt talk to the person i hit them up a couple times, assumed they were busy....until weeks later come to find out they once again went to the same individuals who by the way did Not ask them about me or brought up my name...told them we werent friends anymore and blah blah blah......and to think you would talk all that crap to the person you continuously Said you didnt fuck with like that anymore....And they knew it...And as if they werent gonna turn around and tell me what you said...hello! we are in the same friends circle...or we Were...words spread my dear...im not even pissed anymroe..i was and still am just so confused about the whole thing....how could you talk shit behind my back right in front of my face! ive NEVER done anything to hurt you , ive never put people ahead of you because you were my bff...if you found something you liked in someone great, but its obvious before and after our friendship they mean more to you than to try to mend our own relationship... and then again maybe not..but i have no evidence otherwise...i never said we werent friends..YOU told everyone that..You deleted not just me but our circle...them..thats your buisness...if you take the time to either admit your mistakes, OR explain to us Why you did what you did is Logical...then at least we all know we all approached it because we Wanted to..not because it was a Burden...if its a burden to you then obviously its not worth fixing, but if it isnt then Maybe we can understand wtf is going on...but all this just seems so manipulative....to all of us...but the rest is between those individuals...but if i did something you didnt like you should have opened your mouth and spoke the time it occured like you've been doing to everyone else. but whatever...either way i feel even if i did something...the question is...Why did you spread judgements on how i live my life, my Relationship, and other judgements..? i dont care how bitter i may get toward a person id never judge or put out their personal buisness or secrets to others they intrusted me with..and when i finally confront you , you dont listen you just call up hella other people to get sympathy or i guess boost your own ego..? this has happend all the time...i ghes i just never realized it was happening to me...i just don understand why you could do that crap....but whatever i ghes...ive done my part...if they wanna step up thats on them..but somehow i highly doubt that will happen...

so like i said not knocking "Breathofreshair" comment on what you said...again, maybe its miscommunication between me and you and my blog and again maybe it isnt
and im all for feedback. I dint wanna put detail as of who's and what was said, and when and blah blah cause the world doesnt need to know all that. This is just a place where I can speak my mind, sometimes for advice and sometimes to release it all and relax...writing is a form of therapy for me...And some of this is from personal and some is from my family and friends experience...im just stating my opinion and technique if you will

Angela Simmons YALL!

Ok so anyone who knows me That well knows i loooove the simmons sisters...but damm i didnt expect Angela of all people to come out with a solo project! I truthfully didnt know what to expect LOL yet once I saw the video it was kinda tight...iono one of those songs you gotta listen to a couple of times before you can make a judgement ...but heres the vid below...just know i had it First aite..dont wanna see other random people putting the video and "customizing" it lol ENJOY! ooooh and F.Y.I. Angela and famous skater TK recently broke up..and the word on the street is her old flame Bow Wow has actually been rekindling last month...sop we will see...............!









I'LL do mY shoutouts Later....lolz once again THIS AINT THE GRAMMY'S so forgive me if i leave any names out but this one is especially dedicated to Melanie ...you deserve a lifetime achievement award for all the crap you've put up with from fam and people..and yet you remain strong and still try not to be as much of a bitter batch as u are at times!!! haha or WE are at times...o weLL ...like u say ..."U LOVE ME...!" hehe